My view on hauntings has undergone a big change since I have become a student of Abraham and Esther Hicks. I used to be fascinated by talk of spirits and ghosts. Now, I believe that they are thought forms left behind and could belong to someone long gone just as well as to someone still living. It makes sense that only those who have the ability to tap into other energies.
My hostess was 19 when both her parents were killed in a car crash, along with the driver of the car, her grandfather. That was over 30 years ago. I have heard her speak of the accident before, and it is clear to me that she has not made peace with what happened. She looks back with anger that her life was ruined and mourns the loss of her parents. The blame rests on her grandfather.
As she was visiting with another woman who has the ability to read energies, this woman told her that the old man she saw was her grandfather, the one who needs forgiveness. As my hostess digested this piece of information, all the events of the past came back to her as if they had taken place yesterday. It made sense to her that her grandfather might be asking for forgiveness, but she could not find it in her heart. She still felt the enormity of her loss as a result of his action. I pointed out to her the many wonderful things that have happened in her life, and asked her why was it important now what happened so long ago. It transpired that she felt that there should have been some form of retribution. Her grandfather was 90 her parents were both in their 50s; she felt that it was wrong that their lives were taken away.
I tried to talk to her about how hanging on to this anger may be hurting her (as she is not quite well physically), but to no avail. I have no idea whether I was able to make a difference. But in the end, I had to let her be. Her journey is her own, and it is not my work to try and change her. She will find her own way. I send her much love and blessings and it is now time for me to see her as the powerful being I know she truly is. For now my work is done.