A couple of days ago, I was listening to a speaker at a conference I was attending. He bought up the familiar example: you can hear a smile over the phone line. So true, I thought. Now I know better why you can hear a smile over the phone line – it’s because people are communicating with their vibration as much as they are communicating with their words.
I felt strangled as if someone was choking me, and the muscles in my chest were constricted – I felt frozen to the spot. I didn’t think any words would come out of my mouth if I tried to speak. In that moment I knew exactly what it felt like to have the whole world disappear in the blink of an eye. I will never forget that day – it was the day I thought I would never see my daughter again.
She was five at the time, and I was on a business trip in Dubai – I was used to taking her every where I went.
Let’s face it – the reason so many are turning towards the Law of Attraction and trying to understand and use it, is because we all have things we want to manifest. As I coach people on understanding the fundamentals of the Law of Attraction, I find a common theme active with many which prevents them from getting the results that they want. I want to take a few minutes of your time with this short article and video clip to show you what trips up most people from becoming powerful manifestors.
Question from Ruth: Zehra some people like to engage others to help hold them accountable for maintaining their commitments. Under what situations/intentions is it beneficial for people to do this? As I see it accountability is a way of creating “conditionality” or “contrast” on purpose.
I found out a long time ago that New Year’s resolutions don’t work. I’ve seen many of my friends put out their new year’s resolutions only to be disappointed a few months later. Hell, I’ve done that myself. But then, I’ve also met people who declared their resolutions and achieved them. It wasn’t until I started understanding the Law of Attraction that I began to understand why some people succeed and others don’t. And I think that the end of one year and the beginning of another is an important time to take stock and do something different that makes us more successful and happy. It’s the perfect time to leave the past behind and start fresh.
A Facebook Friend asked this question: Without going into a lot of detail, I am in a situation that I have to correct a wrong and make a confession. It is something that I have put off for a long time, and making the correction is making me fearful and the putting things off has made things worse, like a vicious circle. I know what I need to do, but am afraid to do it (because of potential consequences) and feel lots of bad energy, almost like when you were a little kid and afraid of your parent's punishment. Any advice how to handle this from a law of attraction perspective?
That’s what I was always told as I was growing up. That what I learnt at work – we need to take action in order to move towards our goals. It didn’t make sense because of hard work was all it took then I should have risen to the top of every company I worked for in a very short space of time. If hard work was all it took to be successful then why were the people I knew who were holding down two or three jobs still struggling?
And then there were other people I knew, some of them were my bosses, co-workers, friends or family members who were among the laziest people I knew, who got others to do all their work and took credit at the end and were successful and happy.
Universe, God, what’s the deal? How does action fit into the Law of Attraction equation?
When we start understanding how the Law of Attraction work, we start realizing the fact that we are responsible for everything that happens in our lives. We create our success as well as all our failures. This leads to a feeling of self-sabotage which is represented by the feeling of guilt on the emotional scale.
A few days ago, one of the members of the Facebook group: Answers to Life’s questions posted a compelling question to the group.
For many generations people struggled with an issue - the issue of taking butter out of the fridge cold and not being able to spread it on their toast.
Every time they did that they expressed a desire to the Universe - the desire that spreading butter would be easier. As they did so, solutions were born - the first one was spreadable butter margarine mix - some liked it some didn't - and those who didn't also put the desire of easily spreading butter into the vortex...and another solution was born.