When we feel our own value we feel worthy. Most problems in relationship come from one or both people not feeling valued enough by the other one. But really like attracts like and if we are not feeling valued enough then the chances are that we are not sending out a vibration that says “I am of value”, and if we are not sending out that vibration then all it means is that we are lacking in self-worth. When we really value ourselves, nothing anyone says has any impact.
And let’s face it when we are of value to others we feel good. It’s nice to be nice. Be nice to yourself and others – it will help you feel your own value. Do it for yourself, and for how it makes you feel. Don’t ever do anything from a place of sacrifice, because sacrifice is not a positive feeling. It’s ok to give up something for someone else, but do it and feel good, and then forget about it. Because if you keep score then you are not truly feeling good, because you are waiting for a return of your gesture, and when you do that it hold you back because you are focused on the reality that has already become rather than the reality that is in the process of becoming.
Source, and that which we call God is always creating connections between what people and the things they want. When we become part of the process of someone receiving something – remember, that it wasn’t you who provided for them, rather it was their asking and it was Source answering through you.
This realization really creates an even playing field for it makes us understand that everything that happens to us is because of the way we are vibrating and Source responding. If you want a different response than what you are getting just now – change your vibration, which means change the way you think. Be of value to others and forget about it – in other words no need to keep score, because keeping score hurts you the most.
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