When we are in alignment we are able to find goodness in everyone and everything. When we point that appreciation on to ourselves we create self-worth - so self-worth comes from self-love, self-love comes from being selfish about your alignment. It is the choice between being right and being aligned. You see, being right has nothing to do with being aligned. You can be right and be extremely angry - then you would not be in alignment. You could be right and be in extreme depression and you would not be aligned. In fact, we are always right because our perspective is always true and right from our unique point of view. What we need to do is to find alignment with our perspective. When we call ourselves right and someone else wrong we cannot be in alignment. And that my friends, is the difference between being right and being aligned.
Cut the cord between alignment and being right and you will learn the art of being unconditional. Being Unconditional is true freedom - that is where all joy is - that is what gives us freedom. When we reach that place, we are able to be in alignment "despite" the conditions around us. Reaching that place is just a choice we make in every moment. A good question to ask yourself is “do I want to be right or do I want to be aligned?”
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