Our friends who transition from this world return to Source. As they become part of Source, they are still individual in that they can have their own point of focus and as part of Source they have access to all other points of focus. All points of focus cooperate.
When we have faith, we depend upon the ability of Source to find all the cooperate elements to bring us the outcome we desire. It is wonderful to leave all the work of sifting possibilities to Source. If we were able to give up our resistant thought patterns we would be able to tap into all the power of Source at a conscious level. Source is the energy of love. Love towards all things and all beings.
Coming back to those who have transitioned- from their new vantage point they have perfect knowledge of all they have left behind. If we allowed ourselves to feel purity of love towards them without the despair of having lost them we would be able to connect with them again. Like anything else it takes practiced thought.
Practiced thought is nothing more than a communication bridge with Source on that subject. The more we practice the stronger the bridge becomes. Our habits of thought surrounding the construction of the bridge determine the degree of our success in being able to allow Source to guide us to the best possible outcome.
Call me crazy – but this to-date is my understanding of how life works!