They fool everyone else into thinking that they must be happy people, and a lot of times they fool themselves too. They think that because they are always laughing that they must be thinking positively, but a lot of time their brand of humor is based on sarcasm – and sarcasm is negative.
These seemingly happy people aren’t paying attention to their emotional indicator – they laugh without feeling the joy of being alive. The more people ignore their emotional indicator that is meant to encourage them to shift the way they are thinking, the more they accumulate resistance in their bodies and as a result they either create health issues or age faster, or both. Haven’t you met the 85 year old who doesn’t look or act a day over age 50, and haven’t you met the 50 year old who looks like they might be 80? I have. Age has nothing to do with living life.
Then again, no one comes into the world asking to live forever, therefore death is a part of life. But it is death of the physical body, not of the soul or non-physical energy. From the perspective of Source a human life time is very much like going to a party, enjoying the party, the sights the sounds the people and returning home – no one wants to stay at the same party forever.
So for Source the human body is like the outfit that is donned for a particular party or lifetime. You can't wear the same outfit for ever - the change is good. And from the perspective of non-physical a life time in a physical body is just an outfit that becomes boring after a while and so the decision to quit comes from the inner-being. Sometimes, it comes because there is too much resistance in the physical persona and there is no path of least resistance in that outfit - the pain is too much and so the decision to rebirth is the path of least resistance. Sometimes the non-physical dons a particular outfit for a particular party - when the party is over, the outfit is discarded because it has served its purpose. This purpose has to do with pre-birth intentions. Non-physical considers contrast as fun. From the non-physical point of view the contrast that is created by a shooting in a school for example is the challenge which is going to lead to more expansion, more growth, more fun.
Through the lives we live we are continuously moving towards expansion by experiencing different situations. We are never forced to stay in this life experience/outfit - we can decide to leave and we have control to change at any point. So if the pre-birth intention was to come into the world and wear an outfit to a party that was going to be over quickly, we can decide that we want to stay longer because staying is more fun - and so people get saved or escape miraculously - in all of that there is growth and fun and joy of experiencing life. No two deaths are the same, just like no two people are exactly the same - the reasons differ. At the base of it what it all boils down to is that most of us take life too seriously. There is nothing serious going on here from the perspective of Source – it’s just a party.
No one who makes their transition is gone. I was seven when my maternal grandmother made her transition, and I hung on to her - told her she couldn't leave me. I have always called on her, and many wonderful things have happened as a result. I did not understand before, but I have much more clarity about this now. You see, you cannot translate their energy with your five senses when they make their transition, but you never lose your connection with them. You can activate that connection whenever you choose. That activation comes from a feeling place. As long as we look for them through our eyes, ears or sense of touch we cannot find them. But when we become open to connecting with them vibrationally, then we can feel their presence.
Society has taught us to look upon death as a negative event – but it’s not. Life is a party and death is the end of the party and time to go home.
So while we’re here let’s enjoy the party!