You know, no one else will do it for you. You know why? Well because no one else shares your dreams, your goals, your thoughts and your beliefs. These are yours. No one can share your priorities, but I can tell you that it is absolutely possible not only possible but probable, not only probable but certain that you can allow others what they want while still forging ahead on your own path. Say "no" when you have to, but say it with love. Say "yes" to things that light you up, and more than anything else, ask the Universe to show you your next step - not the whole path. Worrying about the whole path is what gets us stressed and unable to act. Relax, one step at a time will absolutely get you there.