The Fear of Manifesting Success

​All of fear comes from thinking that things, people aren’t going to cooperate with us. And when you start telling yourself that you live in a cooperative Universe, your perspective changes and you start seeing that side of the Universe that’s cooperating with you. Because when you live your life in fear, you do not see all the things that will give you the evidence that the Universe has your back and that the Universe is cooperating with you every step of the way.

Believing that we live in a cooperative Universe removes fear.

Some of us were afraid of things from childhood and thus this fearful quality in us, made us feel that we did not live in a cooperative Universe. We had already forsaken trust and given up faith that the Universe has our back.

Fear is the feeling that someone or something is going to hurt you and nobody is or will be there to help you or protect you and that things are going to go so wrong that you will not be able to fix them.

The work now is to regain that trust, regain the faith, regain that confidence of knowing that all is truly well in my world. To honestly say and believe that all is truly well in my world.

But if you were brought up in an atmosphere of fear. If fear was a big part of your life then you are not going to be able to believe that it is possible for you to manifest the things you want without having to bear the feeling, the pain of having to lose them and it’s the pain that is the problem. We are afraid of success and succeeding because we are afraid of losing the success.

The thing is, that we need to understand that the fear is there and to also understand that we are very capable of dealing with that fear.

The fear is just the story we are telling ourselves. It’s just that self talk we have been feeding ourselves with. We can stop. We can look at things in a different way.
We can tell ourselves that we live in a cooperative Universe and that the Universe has our backs.
“I live in a cooperative Universe and the Universe has my back.”

And it applies in the same way whether it’s positive or negative because what it means to have the Universe cooperate, is that the Universe is going to give you exactly what you are vibrating.

The Universe is giving you exactly what you’re vibrating, it is cooperating with you. It never makes a mistake. So if we are not manifesting what we want, isn’t it a good thing to find out what your beliefs are about that so that you can speak to them, so that you can deal with them? So give yourself a chance to be happy.

What’s the worst that can happen? If you think you will be wasting your time, time will pass anyway. If you’re 41 now, come next year, you will be 42 anyway, whether you try or don’t try!

We really have to ask ourselves where the fear is coming from. And when you go down that rabbit hole, you will find that the fear on top has many fears under it. The fear on top is the way you have figured out to put words to your fear but it’s an accumulation of many different fears.

So when I voice the fear:
“What if this doesn’t work out for me?”
“What if I can’t do this?”
Then the next question is:
“Why do I think I can’t do this?”
And the answer to that is the starting point of figuring out what your fears are.
So will you do that exercise today?
Will you figure out what that means?
How is it showing up in your life?

Feeling that we live in a cooperative Universe, that’s what trust and faith is all about. That’s when you feel safe. Because safety is all about alignment. You never feel unsafe when you are in alignment. It is not even a question you ask yourself.

Confidence is key. Being high on the ES and teaching our children the same, is key.

When we are high on the ES, then we can only attract people, things, experiences and places that are vibrating high!
Alignment first folks!

This post is a transcript of one of the daily lessons in the Unlimited 365 Group Coaching Program.