Thoughts that the Universe hears as 'lack' (as I have come to know)

11/19/2013

Guest Post by Sharon L Coward

Sharon posted this on FaceBook in one of the forums and I loved it so I asked her permission to share it here on my website. I hope you like it too. I so appreciate Sharon for having taken the time to create and share this list.

I would use this list as a guide - and start noticing if you are using any of these phrases as you think your thoughts and engage in conversation with others. Basically, read them over and then delete them from the database in your head so that you never use them again! Not only that, but you will start noticing when others are using these phrases in their conversations and you will be able to guide them away and towards the use of more empowering thoughts.

I know. I know, pressing the delete button doesn't always work, but you can soften negative thoughts by following them up with softening general statements - pretty soon, the negative thoughts will disappear all on their own and you will never see them again. I hope this helps - and if it does, will you please come back here to write a comment and share - I would truly appreciate that. Zehra

1. Where is it?
2. I don't see it
3. Where's my stuff
4. This is too hard
5. I'm not getting this
6. It's taking too long
7. I need it now
8. I need it soon
9. I NEED it
10. I don't have this, never had it...
11. No one ever is that lucky
12. It's luck and I have none
13. They're lucky
14. I wish I had it
15. I wish I didn't want this
16. I wish I wasn't here
17. I wish I didn't have to do this
18. I wish they'd change
19. Nothing ever works out for me
20. It's never gonna happen
21. It happens for other people, not for me
22. It's impossible
23. I can't have it
24. People like me don't get that
25. I'm too fat, too old, too young, too skinny, too....insert word here.
26. Life's hard
27. Life's a struggle and then you die
28. There's not enough.....love, money...peace...strength..whatever
29. There's not enough, there's never enough
30. I'm not strong enough...smart enough...whatever enough...
31. I have a challenge with....insert whatever here

Remember -- the Universe answers a resounding YES to everything we think....every. single. thought. we. offer.
Sharon

Sharon L. Coward - TV producer, TV presenter, media coach and consultant, website manager and web designer...I started the Caribbean Press Releases site in June 2006 to give Caribbean entities a space on the Web to let their messages be seen, read and/or heard.
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14 Comments

Sabine from Germany

12/7/2013 06:26:13 pm

A very helpful list to exercise the left and right side of our brain! On the left side we should place all those "negative" thoughts/feelings (left side of the brain is the rational side). Than...on the right side (our spiritual brain side) we can write the opposite. In other words: “Where’s my stuff "...and you can write down: "just on track and will reach me pretty soon" or whatever you feel comfortable to write down! Step by step you will not "delete" something but will replace your own thought/feeling world and therefore being able to move into a better state of mind without struggling or pushing against negative thoughts. ;-) Blessings from Germany....

Zehra

1/22/2014 03:07:08 pm

You are so right Sabine - we cannot delete, but we can replace - it is the concept of laying new pipes.
Much love and appreciation,
Zehra

Msarlow

12/19/2013 02:10:04 am

Thanks for posting this. One question: what sorts of "softening" thoughts do you suggest?

12/19/2013 03:12:02 pm

Hi Msarlow,
The three step process that I teach as part of my coaching program is designed to help with the softening. It is mentioned in the book "If thoughts create" which you can read for free on-line, it is also described in the book the Prosperity Puzzle which is available for sale on my website, and an example of the three step process is contained in the article: http://www.zmahoon.com/2/post/2013/08/i-want-to-kill-my-neighbours-dog.html
It is really easy but takes a lot of practice.
Much love and appreciation.
Zehra

kalaivanan link

12/19/2013 03:32:43 pm

It is nice to know you coach on Abraham's teachings. They have the potential to change ones life in to a joyous life. Congrats.
with love and appreciation from India.

Cherry

1/21/2014 01:17:22 pm

Thanks for this post, Sharon and Zehra. Would be cool if there's an alternative list we can use, Is there one?

1/22/2014 03:09:07 pm

Hi Cherry,
I don't know if you came back to this post after you read it earlier, but Kati has posted a list in her comment. It is excellent. I will probably add it to the main article over the next few days.
Much love and appreciation,
Zehra

Kati

1/21/2014 10:44:25 pm

Hi - I got inspired by Byron Katie and turned the statements around. This is what my list looks like:

1. I know where it is!
2. I can see it!
3. My stuff is here!
4. This is so easy!
5. I totally get this!
6. It´s done really fast!
7. I don’t need it right not
8. I probably never need it!
9. I don´t need it!
10. I have this, I always had it!
11. Everybody is so lucky!
12. I have it!
13. They have it!
14. I´ve always had it!
15. I am so glad I have this!
16. I am so happy to be here!
17. I am so glad I can do this!
18. I love them just the way they are!
19. Everything is going great!
20. It is happening already!
21. It happens for everybody and especially for me!
22. It´s totally possible!
23. I can have it!
24. People like me get it all the time.
25. I am gorgeous, my age is just right and I am healthy
26. Life´s so easy!
27. Life is dancing on roses and then moving into an ever better place!
28. There´s enough love, money, peace, strength, everything anybody can ever desire!
29. There is more than enough and will always be!
30. I am strong, smart and powerful enough to do and be anything I want!
31. Finding a soul mate and a perfect job is a piece of cake! And the cake is huge ☺

Claudia

1/21/2014 11:19:55 pm

Fabulous, thankyou

1/22/2014 12:52:18 am

Awesome ! Thank you ! Hugs ...

1/22/2014 03:10:28 pm

Kati, you are amazing! Thank you so much for taking the time to compile this list. It is excellent. With your permission, I would like to add it to the main body of the article.
Much love and appreciation,
Zehra

1/23/2014 07:17:13 am

Sure Zehra - go ahead! I enjoyed writing the list and am glad if others enjoyed as well :)

kati

1/21/2014 11:25:05 pm

Hah - yes! Writing the list made me feel super-good : )

Betty

3/1/2014 11:01:18 pm

I read the "revised" list every morning! A great way to start the day!

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