For example, I can repeat in to myself every time I see broccoli, "broccoli tastes horrible". That may not be true for me anymore. But because I’ve been repeating it, I’ve been telling myself that, now this is my belief. It’s my belief that broccoli doesn’t taste good and I’m never going to give it a try. But if I soften that, if I said, "I don’t feel like eating broccoli today, it doesn’t feel good to me today", and leave it open - now, I’ve left open the possibility that tomorrow broccoli might be the perfect thing for me to try. To try, not to have.
That’s how we become unconditional. We become unconditional when we don’t connect two things that don’t need to be connected.
I’ll give you another example. “That person is always rude. She’s never nice to me.” That also is a belief. Sure, that person may not have been nice to you, but your thinking about it over and over again has now taken that one thing that happened and converted it into a belief. And when you convert something into a belief it means you connect two things together and you tell yourself that both these things happen at the same time, they are correlated. Then, because Law of Attraction says that what you think about always comes about, you will start seeing this behavior repeated every time.
But I know, and maybe you do too, and I’ve been one of those people, who can get on the highway right in the middle of rush hour and get to where we’re going smoothly without any interruptions and fast. Because law of attraction always responds to the connections that you’ve made.
So I want to make a suggestion to you today, and the suggestion is, watch for the connections that you’re making between people and things and the way things happen in your life, and loosen those connections. Because the real connections that we want to have in our lives are very few. And those should be our core beliefs.
We all want these core beliefs, but we don’t pay enough attention to discard those ideas and things that come to us that are not congruent with these core beliefs.
Now you’re going to ask me, what are these core beliefs? So let me tell you. What I teach in the heart and mind alignment method is that there are three core beliefs that we all want to believe, but in order for them to become our core beliefs, we have to remember them. And every time we think a thought that’s in opposition to these three core beliefs, we have to discard that thought. Or we have to shift it enough to open the door of possibility, so that our core beliefs can be the ones on the basis of which manifestations happen in our life; on the basis of which law of attraction brings us all the things that we’re asking for.
I know you’re asking, “Zehra, come on, tell me, what are those three core beliefs?” So let me repeat those to you now. Read carefully. These are important.
Here they are:
I am worthy of all good things. I deserve it. The universe wants me to have it.
When I ask, it is always vibrationally given and it is my work to allow it in. The universe is never ever withholding something from us. The universe isn’t keeping your lover away. The universe isn’t keeping the money that you want away. The universe isn’t keeping the health that you want away from you. You’re not allowing it. And all it takes is finding a way to allow. And when we do that everything comes in really fast. So when we repeat this belief, when a thought occurs and we discard it and we say, no, this thought isn’t important because my belief is more important, now we strengthen that belief. And Law of Attraction brings us proof that shows us how strong our belief is.
The last one that I suggest, that I absolutely love and adore: All things are possible. “I have this pain, it’s been there forever” But it doesn’t have to be there tomorrow because all things are possible. “I didn’t get that promotion I wanted.” But maybe I’ll get it next time because all things are possible.
This is how you evaluate what you’re doing in your thoughts. This evaluation is what we call being mindful. What does being mindful of your thoughts mean? Observe your thoughts, and when you’re angry at someone and you want to hit them really hard, you’re being mindful because you’re completely focused on hitting them? That’s not what it is. Being mindful means that you understand when you’re going off-track from your core beliefs. You understand it and you do somethings about it. You shift it in the moment so that you go up the emotional scale just a little bit.
Watch what happens when you start doing this. It takes effort, and I’ve put in the effort. That’s why I can tell you that it works. When you start doing this process your life completely changes because you never look at things the same way. Change of perspective is what changes your vibration. And when you change your vibration all the things that you want keep coming in. People who look at you wonder what’s happened suddenly. Nothing has happened suddenly, it’s happened slowly. It’s happened slowly because you’ve done the work and that’s the most crucial part of our vibrational work.
Start using this little tip and come back and share your results with me. I'm going to look forward to hearing from you.
Much Love & Appreciation,