​Question from Ruth:  Zehra some people like to engage others to help hold them accountable for maintaining their commitments. Under what situations/intentions is it beneficial for people to do this?
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As I see it accountability is a way of creating “conditionality” or “contrast” on purpose. 

When we start understanding how the Law of Attraction work, we start realizing the fact that we are responsible for everything that happens in our lives.  We create our success as well as all our failures.  This leads to a feeling of self-sabotage which is represented by the feeling of guilt on the emotional scale.
A few days ago, one of the members of the Facebook group: Answers to Life’s questions posted a compelling question to the group.

​Aging is basically the process of accumulating resistance in the physical body. 

The health and vitality of our bodies is an indicator that points to our habit of thought.  The jovial person at work who makes everyone laugh and is a hundred pounds overweight most certainly needs to work on their habit of thought as do people with long term pain and ailments.  You see, making others laugh is no barometer for the way the clown is feeling inside. That person who is always smiling isn’t always happy.